Category Archives: relationships with family

Just try harder

One of the things I hate very much about having a chronic/intermittent illness is that I can’t predict when I’ll be well enough to do the things I’d said I’d do or that I’d like to do, and when I’ll … Continue reading

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Unwanted

This story made the news a few months ago but I didn’t get around to posting it until now: a family with a child with Down syndrome was refused permanent residency in Canada because it is believed that the costs … Continue reading

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Appropriate cards for chronic illnesses

I just learned about these empathy cards for patients with chronic illnesses. Here are my two favourite cards: and

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The devil I know

Over the past few years, I’ve noticed that the number of days I spend too tired to work has increased. I also find that I can work fewer hours per day on average than I used to. This past winter … Continue reading

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Welcome to my normal

I was at a family event this past weekend while I was having steroid withdrawal. There’s nothing quite like looking dazed and then falling asleep on the floor in front of relatives you haven’t seen in a year — and … Continue reading

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